Former England Player Claims Owen Farrell ‘Hated’ Him After Drunken Toilet Row

Rugby News
Monday, 13 October 2025 at 19:42
Former England lock Dave Attwood, now age 38 and retired since 2023, has peeled back the curtain on a long-standing feud with fellow England great Owen Farrell.
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Their tension dates from their time as teammates under Stuart Lancaster and Eddie Jones — a spat ignited by a passing joke about rugby league during a post-match celebration abroad.
On the RugbyPass Offload podcast, Attwood candidly reflected:

“On the pitch, I struggle a lot with Owen Farrell. We just don’t see eye to eye on a lot of things.”
“He’s the best 10 in the world — incredibly good — I’ve got enormous respect for him as a player. But he frustrates the hell out of me when I play against him.”

Despite the respect, Attwood didn’t hold back about their off-field relationship:

“He hates me with a passion … I bagged rugby league once jovially — said it was ‘a bloody sport for peasants’ — and he f***ing hated it.”
“Out in Italy or maybe France he fully lost the plot … he had a bit of a shout at me and stormed off to the toilet, so I followed him.”

He then recounted the awkward urinal confrontation:

“His dad Andy walked in. Owen was like, ‘I don’t want to f***ing hear it,’ and tried to slam the door into me. The door hit the stopper and nearly bounced back into him.”

Attwood said the pair never properly resolved the incident, but their rivalry seemed baked into every later meeting.

“It was a drunken bit of argy that went too far. Owen’s incredibly competitive … in every game between us there’s an edge. A tackle, a run, a collision. I’m sure he’s sometimes thinking, ‘Don’t even know Dave’s playing’ — but for me there’s always something.”

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